A few months ago, my son asked me if I had ever heard of the basketball player Bol Bol. I told him I heard of Manute Bol, and Eliot said Bol Bol was his son, who is still in high school. “He’s actually great,” Eliot assured me — he follows Bol Bol on Instagram, and is also an avid watcher of sites that post videos of basketball greats past, present, and future. Apparently, Bol Bol — from Sudan and five inches shorter than his father at 7’2 — is a hero to a legion of 11-year-old boys.

Since then, he’s asked me multiple times if I knew who Bol Bol was. Either he forgets having spoken to me about Bol Bol, or just uses it as an opportunity to hear me talk about the times I saw Manute play, just as he enjoys when I repeat the same tales about the times I saw Dr. J, Magic, Kareem, MJ, and Larry Bird.

The late Manute Bol, with teammate Mugsy Bogues

So it’s Sunday, January 14, and a friend’s family is supposed to take Eliot to the Hoophall Classic in Springfield, MA, a three-day extravaganza of high school basketball games that brings together the best teams and players in the country; but at the last minute, the friend says he’s sick and can’t go. Eliot is crushed, and I’m kind of disappointed, as I was hoping for a free day to run errands and be sullen. I was wondering what to do with him when my wife Rachel, calling from work, suggested that I take him to the basketball games.

“Me?” It had never crossed my mind. In terms of my personal sedentary disgruntlement with the world and everything in it, on a scale with 1 being “Cool, let’s do it!” and 10 being “Get offa my lawn, you rotten kids!”, I’m at about a 6 or 7 most days, so when I asked Eliot if he wanted me to take him, his first reaction was to say, “You?”

I said, “Yes. Me.” And his face lit up.

About an hour later, we were on our way, me full of dread about the crowds, the drive, the parking, what we were going to eat — because dreading and mulling and dwelling about all I dread is how I move through the world. And grousing — did I mention the grousing? (Did I have to?) On our way, we stopped to see Eliot’s grandfather at the nursing home. As usual, my father-in-law was surly and non-communicative although, as usual, his tablemate in the dining room, 96-year-old Bob (who may be a leprechaun), was thrilled to see us. When we told him where we were heading, he exulted: “That’s AMAZING! What FUN you’ll have! What a SPECIAL, EXCITING day! ENJOY IT YOU TWO!”

I felt shamed, shamed by a leprechaun, so much so that when Eliot and I got back in the car, I apologized for being such a pain in the ass and told him I was happy to be going. And I really was — that’s how leprechaun magic works.

We got to the gym at Springfield College — packed to the rafters with rabid hoops fans, college scouts, coaches, and yoots. Someone pointed out Knicks great (and Georgetown University coach) Patrick Ewing, and soon after we found some seats in the third row, we saw University of Kentucky coach John Calipari settling in. This event was clearly a huge deal if he was there. We bought a program, and on the inside front cover, the top players (along with where they would be playing in college, if they’d committed) were listed.

Among the “Best of the Best” was a picture of…Bol Bol.

Eliot and I looked at each other — No! Nooooo. No way no way no way. We tore through the program — Bol Bol would be playing in the third game. Eliot’s reaction…how to describe it? Remember the end of Animal House, when a woman on a parade float wearing a bunny costume gets flung into the window of a kid reading Playboy who reacts by saying, “Thank you, God!”? Sort of like that.

The anticipation leading up to Bol Bol’s game was almost unbearable. We witnessed some great basketball — the kids are amazing, the best of them already dunking like pros — and were introduced to some can’t miss future stars. (Remember this name — Scottie Lewis, the player I think Calipari was the most interested in.) Eliot loved it, and I plugged into the part of me that was once passionate about this kind of stuff, but that now wants you to get the hell off my lawn. The buzz in the stands was all Bol Bol. Bol Bol. Bol Bol.

When the 3:30 game ended, the court cleared and seemingly all the 11-year-olds in attendance pressed around courtside, waiting for Bol Bol. And suddenly, there he was, all 7 foot 2 inches of him — and he wasn’t even the tallest guy on the team. He had a 7’3” teammate, a spindly white guy who Eliot could probably box out of the paint, but who looked like he could also play a little. Aside from two six-foot guards, everyone on this team — Findley College Prep — was over 6’5”, and really good — the school has a probably well-deserved reputation as a basketball factory.

Bol Bol and some other guy

Watching people gawk, I couldn’t help thinking how, in another time, Americans might have ventured out to a sideshow just to gaze up at someone as uncommon and magnificent as Bol Bol. I suppose it’s only natural to wonder what it must feel like to be inside that body, and just as natural to come up completely blank. No doubt the center of attention in any room he has ever been or will ever be in, Bol Bol seems bemused by the attention, and already capable of maintaining a psychic wall between himself and the people who want something from him — an autograph, a high five, a glance of recognition. His famous dad might have prepared him for the ride he’s now on. In any case, his poise was remarkable.

I gave Eliot my pathetic Tracfone and told him to take some pictures of Bol Bol. He went off for a few minutes, then came running back.

“I met Coach Calipari!” he said.

“Omigod,” I responded.

“He shook my hand and looked me in…the…eye.”

“Where did you see him?”

“As he was leaving. I started shouting ‘Coach K! Coach K!’ and he came over to me and shook my hand.”

“But Eliot, that’s Coach Cal. Coach K is the guy at Duke.”

Beet red. “Oh, no!”

“Eliot, I don’t think he cared.”

“Alright!” And Eliot went back to taking pictures of Bol Bol.

Coach Cal

Bol Bol looks quite like his dad, and as play started, seemingly had the same game — standing around, taking up space, looking a little out of it. But unlike Manute, Bol Bol has soft hands and, when he gets the ball around the basket, an explosive step to the rim, which is about one foot above his outstretched arms. He reminded me of a caiman you might see on the nature shows — barely moving, shifting his eyes back and forth until the gazelle gets a little too close to the watering hole and then a BOOM flash of mayhem ending with the gazelle between its jaws. But in addition to the vicious dunks, Bol Bol has a sweet touch from middle range and moves well, plus he made all his free throws. He’s got game.

If you watch the video below, you can see a video of all Bol Bol’s moves from the game. The crowd went nuts on each one, but Eliot and I were sitting next to a group of yoots who seemed studiedly nonplussed by the show, too cool to jump up and down screaming like we were. Until the last dunk, which is at 57 seconds on the video. Bol Bol was just about standing outside the paint when he got the ball and delivered a thunderous windmill dunk — I don’t know how it might look to you onscreen, but in person, it was as if we had just seen something that could not have actually happened. Could NOT have actually happened. The arena erupted, and even the eight too cool yoots sitting next to us all linked arms and started chanting Bol Bol’s name.

When Eliot and I were waiting for the car to warm up as we headed home, he says to me: “Dad, I think this was our best day ever.” I told him whether that was true or not, it was certainly a good day to have been us.

We stopped for hamburgers on the way home and talked about how when we woke up in the morning, neither of us had any idea we would be seeing Bol Bol, but how some days you get out there into the big wide world and you do see Bol Bol, and that’s what makes life great. Absolutely. Just great.

Normal, but more so.